Relationship question

[Grasshopperglock]

What makes a woman think she can talk to a man like there's a ring on his finger?


Honest, from the heart, question.



Is it some kind of thinking, you get both the saddle ~and~ the horse for free?

[Grasshopperglock]

As you sit there and read this.


She's somewhere in the house.


Try this social experiment. Girlfriend not wife.


Tell her to, "submit". With all you gotta do is, is whatever you do. You can't cook. So decorate the house. No? Don't have the inspiration?



That's wonderful. Being positive. It's F'ing wonderful.


I guess we're going at the strong independent woman act.


What can I say? Try it on the mail man?


I'm a knuckle dragger and need insight. Help me, Help You.

[Grasshopperglock]

Here's how this night is gonna end.


Supreme pizza and Chicken wings. I'm not cooking. And she's going to order a bunch of other stuff.


Paid for by me.

[Ludwig]

This seems to be a case of having made your bed and finding it uncomfortable. It may be time for a cost/benefit analysis.

[Shotgun Jeremy]

Every woman's crazy. You've just got to find the level of crazy you can put up with.

A ring on a finger should have no difference in how they treat you or you treat them, though.

[Grasshopperglock]

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This seems to be a case of having made your bed and finding it uncomfortable. It may be time for a cost/benefit analysis.

That's my line of thinking. There's things that's happened. That I would of never thought possible.


Professional taken pictures thrown in the garbage. That hurt.


Then the weird stuff. Like the time I caught her pouring bleach to a grape vine. Things have died in the yard and I thought it was strange. (Maybe that's why I'm the cook in the household)

Went to her momma's house for a month. Michigan. And somehow her 140,000 Dodge can whisk the miles out. Nary a problem. Plus other stuff I can't mention. Before the trip she was mean. After the trip, I thought she had been switched out. A serious curiosity on why you're being, 'nice' to me. That itself set off the spider sense. Ringing bells.

I've gotten too old or something.

[Grasshopperglock]

For context.


She went to her mommas house by herself. I stayed here. The only relative I've met that this woman has. Is her daughter. And she has a huge family. From Michigan to California.

Never met a one. Her and her daughter went to a wedding in California. Again, I stayed here. Wasn't invited.


What I do get is sticky notes saying to repair the fence.

[Ludwig]

Read Hosea. He may give you some inspiration.

[Grasshopperglock]

Respect. But been there and done that. I have 4 children.

First wife cheated with my father's boss. 2 kids.

Second committed murder, serving 55 years in Texas prison. 1 kid.

Third tried to physically kill me. 1 kid.


Why am I being tested so much? Good grief. I'd do better reading the Book of Job.

[fchafey]

My then girlfriend shot 39/40 with her M16. Made Corporal. 294 PT test, was going to dis her on pushups but her 2 mile was 11 flat with 90 situps.....I thought if she can manage money then she is perfect because I was always broke....been married 41 years 20 April.....if she wanted six rings she could have them....